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      posted on Nov 23, 2009

      Hi, I am a 26 year old pregnant mother of two. I am divorced and struggling to care for my two and four year old children. I am currently a full time college student and am due to give birth in January. I am also awaiting my test results back from the doctor to find out if I have cervix cancer, the biopsy was done last week so I will find out in 4 to 6 weeks. In July of this year I lost my part time job that has kept my family afloat and now I am so far behind on my bills that I am facing losing everything, or what little that I have left. I just came up for section 8 housing and am set to move into an apartment on December first (myself and my two children are currently living with my grandparents in one little room and they are living on social security and cannot continue to bear our burdens) however due to the deposits on the apartment I am afraid that we will not be able to move in and will have to let this assistance from the government pass us by. I am currently on TANF but our monthly income is only 292.00 a month. They take all of my child support (250) in lieu of the TANF so that my budget remains at 292.00. I am simply at a loss, the deposits at the apartment total $810.00 not to mention the necessary items we will need to live in an apartment, I do have some furniture and a few things left over from when I was self sufficient and had my own home, but I have no idea what to do to be able to make this move...

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          1. Baloney posted on May 10, 2010

          Wow! You are going through so much right now. I want to say how impressed I am that you are getting your college degree in spite of all the challenges you face right now. Good for you! You are traveling down a difficult road right now. Don't give up. You can do it.

          As far as your biopsy is concerned, I would call your doctor and ask for the results. It should not take longer than a week to get results. 4 to 6 weeks is way too long, especially with your pregnancy. Finding our the results will at least help to get this off your plate. 

          Do you have a social worker at your State that can intercede and help you? I know that my mother-in-law has one that has worked miracles for them.

          How about going to your church? Sometimes social agencies and churches will offer short term loans or be able to help. 

          Take each day one day at a time and if one day is too much, take it hour by hour or even minute by minute. You are working toward a better future and it will come.

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